My views on massage and the cosmos
My philosophies are really pretty simple.
I want to help create an energy that puts you in tune with your
body, mind and spirit.
To maximize your body's ability to heal itself
and live a happy and full life.
Body = Skin, muscles, fascia, tendons, joints, bones,
blood, lymph, organs and
other fluids and nutrients.
Mind = The brain and central nervous system that react to all internal and external stimuli.
Spirit = All energies from gravity to emotional, seen and unseen that pull
your body and mind to different challenges and callings.
Throughout the universe there is positive energy and negative energy that
are at constant opposites, ever pushing and pulling against each other
to balance that which is imperfect.
Not all negative energy is bad.
Not all positive energy is good at any given moment.
Both are needed for balance in the universe.
In this life I believe my calling is to create positive energy and to help
you create
positive energy within yourself.
I believe organic life and the struggle to survive creates enough negative energy
in and of itself.
If we are to balance that in our lives we must work against the struggles of life
to create positive energy.
Positive energy will not just appear...it MUST be worked at.
Otherwise we will lose to negative energy and our bodies and minds will stay
in a constant state of stress, sadness and low self esteem.
This is why I believe massage is essential for balance in your body, mind and spirit.
Life beats you up. Massage helps the process of smoothing it back out.
My Table vs. Chair massage
( Why I mostly work with women )
When I do chair massage at events, it is more about a therapeutic mentality.
I only have 10-20 minutes with you, so I'm going to work towards relaxation, re-alignment
of mostly neck and back muscles and stimulation of the central nervous system.
I work on both men and women with the goal of giving your body an invigorating boost, so
you can get up and get on with your work day, family gathering, party, etc.
My table massage however, is not only about about therapeutic skin/fascia/muscle work,
but also deep relaxation, re-connecting you with positive or spiritual energy,
nurturing emotional release and of course...your well deserved TLC (Tender Lovin' Care).
It is of the highest importance to me to feel purely and positively connected to the one who is
under my hands, on my table.
This way I can put my most focused positive energy into helping my client receive
good energy from the universe and thus heal themselves.
My connection and effectiveness in this way has always been best with women.
Prior to massage I spent many years giving crisis counseling (both online and during my years as a traveling minister) mostly to women on issues stemming from their past abuses, addictions and early negative programming.
For this reason I choose to use all that I've learned over the years and
only work with women on the table.
It is how I feel called and what I feel the most comfortable with.
This does not mean I offer any services outside of a purely professional, therapeutic and ethical massage.
It just means that I acknowledge that men and women have two very different energies and I choose to specialize in healing women.
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Honesty
If you read more of my thoughts on this site you will realize that I am not
a conveyer belt spa out to rush anyone who shows up with money on and off the table
to maximize my profit.
I give massage because I love to do it...so if I'm going to make a living at it
I refuse to do it in any way that will lead me to not love it anymore.
That would be a tragic loss in my life.
There is no fear in me about passing up money if how I make it will not fulfill me
and make me happy.
I only book a certain amount of clients per week (10-20 max) because
I put a lot of energy into your massage and don't want to burn out.
There are many massage providers that are great at what they
do...and yes there are some very bad ones too.
The important thing to remember is that not every provider is right for you and
your specific needs.
My hope for you is that you take the time to pick the right one (whether it's me or not)
So that you can truly find happiness in your life.
That is my honest hope for you.
Good wishes for your path.
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